Dear friends,
Have anybody thought why people drink or smoke or go to disco....
My friend said...
1. It is not wrong at all to drink or smoke, but extremely wrong to make it a habit.
2. Every guy is tempted to drink and smoke as it gives a kick.. if you know what i mean..
Another friend said..
1. Absolutely right... after all its his personal life.. Got every right to live as one wishes...
If you would like to have a life partner drinking, smoking, going to disco, cracking bad jokes and watching bad movies?
If the answer is
Yes... I would like to... then don't read further...
No.. I would not marry such a person.. Please read further..
1. Habit or occasionally drinking whatever it is wrong... don't get fooled by saying no... A drunkard can sometimes be successful in his career... but cannot be happy either in his profession or personal life... i have seen many cases like tat..
2. What guys need?.... Will we accept if our mothers are doing it... just for kick.. Today there are ladies working in corporates- equally paid, handling equal pressure, equal responsibilities in the organizations and family...
Single women bringing up their children alone fighting throughout their life tons and tons of pressure you so called guys might think off...
What will happen if mothers start drinking, fathers start drinking, brothers start drinking... house will become bar.. will need to stock brandy and whisky instead of rice and wheat...
Street to street there will be bars, clubs, dirty dances just for need a kick guys instead of grocery shops...
Think in the long run... if you are a person concerned about your well-being alone... then you will not realize the seriousness of the problem...
Your friends will follow you...
Your colleagues will take you as an example...
Your son might take you as a role model...
Future of India? Yes it lies in the hands of younger generation... Where are the younger generation?... In the bars, clubs, discos.....
Life is not simply enjoyment... How one lives matters...
hardships, threats, failures, risks and uncertainties are not only there for todays IT professionals who are loosing jobs with a big question mark about the future...
hardships, threats, failures, risks and uncertainties are not only for managers in finance in this period of recession...
Our ancestors have faced lots and lots of struggles and pressures than we could imagine... Have you heard of stories about emperors who failed miserably because of bad habits? I know plenty of tales.. When it is true for emperors it is true for you and me...
One day we will be living in a world without values, without trust, without love, with nothing to support human life...
One day the earth will come to a halt.. not because of natural calamities... but because there is only human animals living in it...
signing off
krithiga
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Hi Krithiga,
ReplyDeleteWell, Congrats first up for coming up with your own blog...as far as the topic goes, I completely agree with you and there are no two ways about it...I do not know who argued rationalising habits like smoking, drinking and so on as nothing wrong...in fact such 'nothing wrong' attitude is responsible for making that guy/girl to say that its right...such people start with such attitude,involve in such habits,build affinity with people who have such habits and start arguing that they are right and hate people like you...further if you are a guy and do not do any such things then its hard to get friends also...it takes a lot to be a guy without such habits and i mean it...to sum up you have hit the nail on its head but let us hope a few active ears are listening...this nothing wrong attitude is simply irresponsible stuff........ARUN
Krithiga,
ReplyDeletewhy the thought regarding habit u discussed arisen in mind of people is really needs to think. But in my opinion we generally inspired by media.... you may analyze that by realizing there are several issues but those which raise by media is running over mind. And it is known fact that experiences makes attitude and finally habit. So people when find a person different from them they try to make them same to self. So if someone say you that smoking, drinking etc are not bad, then it means the person is surprised about you that "you are not taking these". However, Scientifically there are well recognized side effects of these habits and principally in social habitat too. As u also tell emperors have gone.
But there is also a bad factor about humankind is that Human after repeating something continuously, get an impression that 'act' is OK. For examples suppose a person have tuberculosis bacteria surviving in body but not a patient. and he/she in such condition will not cared about. Similarly a tuberculosis patient got started treatment (duration of treatment is 9 to 18 months)realized after a month that he/she have pleasant mood, think that he/she have got cured and stop treatment. This act of them make resistant TB (which is hard to cure). In both the case I want to say that people are generally think for short period not about long term consequences. If a person saying that its ok to take wine etc then he/she is wrong, like a TB patient who is not taking medicines at proper time.
So never mind and don't argued much to such people.
Further in my personal experience IF ONE NEEDS TO SERVE HIS NATION SOCIETY COMMUNITY, ONES NEEDS TO SERVE SELF first.
IF SOMEONE MAKE HEALTHY TO SELF NATION WILL BECOME HEALTHY AUTOMATICALLY (here u may assume all type of healths).
At last I congratulates you for your BLOG, and say thank you for expressing your views
and discussion you have started.